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Dear Ralph,

Look no further than the catwalks for your new style. The "modern-yet-moderate" look is hot for menswear. Fashion mavens are calling it "Future Rustic," a perfect combination of technology and down-to-earth nature that is thoroughly modern but not too out there. Look for clothes with techno details like asymmetrical cuts, utilitarian closures like zippers and Velcro, hoods, usable features like cell-phone holders, and transformer snaps which allow pants to snap off into shorts and long sleeve shirts into short sleeve.

Wear shirts with square, U or V-shaped necks. Pant styles are either drop-waisted and wide-legged or narrow and slim-fitted. Try mixing contrasting colors and fabrics. Prada's most recent menswear collection is a perfect example of this. Natural shades like olive, mahogany, and smoke blue combine with tinted whites and muted silvers. Flannels, wools, and soft cotton knits are paired with shiny polyesters and metallic fabrics. Wearing denim will keep your style grounded.

Looking stronger in your outfits depends on your body type. If you have well-defined muscles, go for close-fitting shirts that reveal your shape. The new techno style you want uses layering - a solution to your dilemma of looking stronger if you need to add bulk. Layers will do the trick. Knits are big right now, and there's nothing better than a thick sweater or sweatshirt to make your upper body appear more built-up.

Sweater vests and padded nylon vests are also good for bulking up your chest area, and look great worn over a long-sleeve cotton shirt. A leather jacket is a good choice for creating the appearance of a strong upper body. It also has the psychological impact of the bad boy/tough-guy image, and people will tend to envision you as physically stronger. Keep in mind that the power of a strong personality and confident aura will automatically radiate strength!

Have fun enjoying all the attention you will attract as the new, modern, strong you! Sincerely,