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Dear Vivien:

The thing about Prom, or any event, is that the build-up and hype about getting that perfect date is really huge, but then it isn't always easy to get a date. Both girls and guys have this problem. Guys can get refused by the girls they ask, or be too shy to ask a girl in the first place. Girls can end up not getting asked, or get turned down by the guys they ask. What's the solution to this somewhat universal dilemma? Making plans to go to the Prom with friends. That way, you have a back-up plan in case you don't get asked to Prom. Preferably, you should make this plan with enough people so that if someone--say, you--drops out of the plan, there's still a group going.

Keep in mind that there definitely are guys out there who appreciate larger women, and guys who don't care about a person's weight. If you don't meet some of them in time for Prom, don't worry. Go to Prom anyway, and expect to meet up with them eventually.

Also remember that the thing about being on a date is that it doesn't always turn out to be a"dream date."The person can end up being rude, or just having no sense of humor. There will definitely be people at the Prom who envy those who chose to go with good friends instead of a date they hardly knew. With friends it can be easier to laugh and talk than with someone with whom you're worried about making a good impression.

So make a plan for yourself. Get a great dress, a fab pair of shoes, and do your hair and makeup. Check out our sister site, PromAdvice.com, which can help you with lots of tips and advice on Prom.

Sincerely, Fashion Girl